Outercourse for Egalitarian Intimacy

When someone enthusiastically describes the deep connection they experience during penetrative sex, I totally understand why that type of intimacy is so powerful for them, and I can relate based on my own experiences. However, I find that the empathy and understanding are not always mutual. When I describe the deep intimacy I experience from outercourse, or non-penetrative sex, it […]

Topping & Bottoming WITHOUT Penetration!

Several years ago, I realized that I prefer non-penetrative sex. There are a few exceptions to this, and I do occasionally explore my boundaries in this area, but most of the time I have zero interest in penetration, especially anal. Many men find this baffling because they can’t fathom the concept of sex without penetration. Others scoff at non-penetrative sex […]