Several years ago, I realized that I prefer non-penetrative sex. There are a few exceptions to this, and I do occasionally explore my boundaries in this area, but most of the time I have zero interest in penetration, especially anal. Many men find this baffling because they can’t fathom the concept of sex without penetration. Others scoff at non-penetrative sex […]
Happy National Coming Out Day! Today is also my Re-Coming Out Day! I almost did this two years ago, but I wasn’t ready yet. Today is a big day for me. Thank you for being a part of it! Today, I am proud to come out as queer, but I am affectionately calling it “Queer, Version 2.0,” the revised and […]
“Song of Myself” has long served as a sort of scripture for me, especially this particular section. I have quoted it many times all over social media. Whenever the demons of doubt cast their shadows on me, Whitman’s lyrical sermons have frequently offered me comfort and inspiration. Whitman viewed both the natural world and the human world with a sense […]
Dear Cockmonger: I will be 70 next month. I usually need to use a Viagra or a vacuum pump system in order to get an erection, but I still enjoy masturbating, even when I’m soft. Have you ever done an article on masturbating, aging, and lack of body function? Would love to see something on that topic. Dear Reader: Thank […]
The invention of photography has given us the ability to take snapshots of real bodies in real time. People have been taking nude photographs since the invention of the daguerreotype in the 1830s. Erotic photos were very clandestine throughout the 19th and early 20th centuries, although not as rare as we like to think. Our forebears were doing the same […]